So many wonder why divorce being ancient. I serve Father, was called to step out... but Father told me it was a jubilee..I was being returned to him. So had done my time with where I was not one with or in. If I had a husband that could deal with spiritual things am sure I would have stayed within the marriage. That was not the case.. as my husband has never witnessed how just how hateful and nasty I can be especially when it comes to Father. I wouldn't attack anyone re my husband...not this one...but then the man never really defended me either..and oh yes aware of them I was. No person would ever think Father would call such. So could that be a defender of the faith?
More than that are people are not taught to take to Father His words asking regarding these tensions and total disagreements within a marriage...even the ones that are for Father they are not taught. Father was quick for me on these things to keep a peace really within living with each other. You have to be willing to include yourself though. I always did that. Of course there are lots of scriptures said by God about peace. There are scriptures stating God changed hearts. There are scriptures about His yoke being easy...and word the biggest is to ask. So when I really didn't even know myself that I was truly in the right..that is how I directed prayer. Asking Father to change one of our hearts...if I am wrong change my heart...this is not peace. Well a heart would always change...sometimes his sometimes mine... Times when our children a bit older didn't change to fast but even then for a reason with upset child talking with you can't stand it.. used the time to teach to intercede pray for his parents...wow God showed up the moment that child did it, he was so excited had to run and tell me.
I thanked him for this.
So much was witnessed even within times of not getting along. You can't leave yourself out where error is concerned..we are all human and evil. With children also you try to be in the same house without the appearance of not getting along..I did these things too like save my ironing for these times hahaha we were blessed to have a living room and family room too... so not forced to be in same room...with us both being home and look quite normal. The thing is you know yourself that is not peace...that is "make shift"? or "make do"
I had a husband that would pray our dinner prayer and did know it by heart, so he learned from me that and doing. I had a husband that would go listen to our children say their night time prayer I taught, I don't know the man heard it enough times to even know the prayer himself. If I did go out an evening with friends, I usually had children in bed before leaving the home..they went early. So he was rarely if ever left with that chore even...sometimes just bathed ready and him put to bed...so would hear their prayers. Many women don't even do their jobs in that department. So the answer is yes I think I could shed a bit a light never taught that I have seen.
Number one never take Father words from a man.. "out of God's mouth you must find for your defense" Armor of God means just that. No say armor of man. that doesn't fly in Father's court room. This really is where women do belong in ministry..to help the woman know their place and how to pray to Father on their behalf to have peace.